Whats in the air is a weird thing
Its not right or wrong...
but its just very weird
People around are obsessed with "marriage", "need someone" philosophies
And the way i always thought of it-Love was meant to be something that just happens,
that 2 people meet and they connect...and the rest is destiny

But today if they don't connect..or connect differently...people ask...
make assumptions...The way things are going I think a girl and a guy could be best friends 10 yrs back, not anymore...

How i look at things? I left home 4 years back to make my destiny...ran away because the place just didn't give much credit to what I could achieve without 'any' guy in my life.
In the last 4 years, people who really helped me reach where I wanted to, supported through wrong decisions, talked to me in and out...were my friends, some best friends, and some random friends with random advices. Most of them who were there for me werent tagged in a relationship...those who were, sometimes thought I never got the pressure of a relationship...but I grew, I understood, suffered some unfortunate events and rejoiced many happy ones with my 'friends', created memories with them that will last a lifetime...
and I could never have grown with such respect if I had that somebody who I constantly depended on here too.

I don't say to be in love is a bad thing...its by far the most pleasurable moments of life-what I fail to understand is that at the peak of our careers and at the peak of our lives, is it one of the most crucial needs beyond without which u feel like a failure?or you constantly feel alone?is it something you can't do without especially if you're yet to meet the right person?My answer is no...and I dunno whats yours...

I am still very optimistic about finding the right person just when the time is right...:)